Do you consider yourself to be a giver?
The kind of person that gives to others, gives to their family, to their friends, to their colleagues, to their partner, to their children but time and time again forgets to put themselves first?
I don't know about you but you may have realised that this actually begins to take its toll...
- on your career...
- on your finances...
- on your health...
- on your relationships...
What do we find about givers?
Well first of all, this is what I know about you, if you do class yourself to be a giver...
- it's because you in fact are a beautiful soul...
- it's because you are a kind person...
- it's because you do find enjoyment in helping others get happiness and fulfillment...
But what about your happiness and fulfillment?
When is it your time to shine and look after your needs?
The thing is, when people start to think like this quite often they start to feel a little bit of guilt, or maybe even there's some shame to think "who am I to put myself first?".
People need to realize that their "happiness" - the people that you're giving to and your "happiness" are in fact one and the same.
In fact, it was Marianne Williamson that once said that...
As we let our own light shine we unconsciously give people permission to do the very same thing.
I have a gorgeous little daughter, and I can tell you this much for certain - she doesn't listen to a thing I say!
But she definitely watches what I do.
In fact, she learns by modeling, by observing what other people are doing so just for a moment you decide to put yourself first then all of a sudden you'd be giving even more of yourself.
Let me ask you this...
- Do you allow yourself to put yourself first?
- Are you going out there experiencing the magnificent life you deserve?
- Are you owning your gifts, your talents, your owning your unique abilities are you sharing them to the fullest capacity and are really creating the life that you actually dreamed of?
I know that sounds pretty cliché but really contemplate that, are you doing what you meant to be doing?
Are you in life at the moment and the point where you thought you would be 5-10 years ago?
If not, then maybe it's NOT that you need to learn more.
Maybe it's just you need to have the right type of support around you...
Maybe you just need to say to yourself it's my time to shine and open the door to support that will allow you to get there even quicker...
I'd like to be one of those guides for you!
Certainly through my own journey in life, my own self discovery, my own personal development, I had my ups and downs, I struggled like everybody else.
Over the years, I put together a bit of a process that allowed me to get myself out of a huge amount of debt, get out of the state of really life-threatening obesity, and get myself back on track and find what I was meant to be doing in life and since that point I went out there and started to learn things like Reiki and energy healing and coaching. As we refine this process over and over again what we found that there is a way for you to go out there and shine as bright as you can.
You can do what you love
If you're not doing what you love, then whatever it is you're doing is not the best use of your time! I know that sounds a bit harsh, but there is a lot of truth to it.
I'd like to invite you to come along to a special course because I believe it's your time to shine.
This course has proved the test of time and has helped changed the lives of thousands of people.
Just last year alone, we had over two-and-a-half thousand people attending where we share a process that allows people just like you to really crack that meaningful experience that you've been looking for.
The process is called the Turning Point Process and this process is taught at our signature 1 day free personal development course. At the course you'll be able to learn alongside people just like you who are givers who want to go out there and share their light, live their love and have a magnificent existence.
Maybe you haven't found the right strategy or had the right level of hand-holding that will allow them to get to where they really want to go to.
So what you'll be able to do is immerse yourself in a safe and supportive environment that will allow you to change the way you think and therefore change the way you act and ultimately change the results that are starting to come to fruition to unfold within your own experience of life and give yourself time to shine.
Some of the tangible takeaways...
- You get clarity on your purpose.
- You learn how to align your head, your heart, and your hands so you're taking intuitive actions that are guiding you towards your life purpose.
- You'll be able to dissolve the resistance in your life that may come to you in the form of shame or guilt or maybe social anxieties.
- As you dissolve resistance in your life away, you'll be left with the ability to guide yourself from your heart and have that really meaningful experience you always dreamed of.
There are a lot more things that are covered during the course but by making the decision to come along to it, it really is the first step to allowing yourself time to shine as brightly as possible 🙂
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